10 Things No Woman Should Have To Apologize For

10 Things No Woman Should Have To Apologize For
    Women are more apologize than men. Does this mean that we are doing more wrong things or that we actually have more to apologize for? No, it has not allowed us for many centuries to do a lot of things and learned guilt to get out of line. These days we have more rights, more opportunities, we would like to believe that we are on our way to equality, but old customs are dying so hard and we still have days like Vanya from the Umbrella Academy and feel the need to apologize for everything. Let's stop this. Sure, if you have injured someone, you are rude or you have committed something wrong - you should apologize. But here 10 believes that no woman should apologize for them.

    1. Say no
    It is strange that sometimes it is difficult to say no. Not only to an appointment but to a friend asking for a favor, a colleague asks for help in some business, for all kinds of requests. Sometimes we agree on things because we feel that doing whatever is asked of us is easier than saying no. But saying "no" to something you do not want to do is good, and you should not feel guilty or want to apologize for it.

    2. Turning Down A Date
    If you do not want to go out with someone, you should not feel guilty about it. You are not a friend of anyone, it is an open concept. You do not give up on anyone. You are just sincerity and this is not what you regret.

    3. Put yourself first
    Usually, a woman is very sympathetic, so when someone feels bad or asks for help, we run. But remember that you can not help anyone if you do not help yourself first. So remember that you should always put yourself in the first place and that is good.

    4. Love your body
    Stop apologizing for being too big, too thin, or too big. It's your body and you have to love it no matter what. It is not good to want to improve it, but you certainly should not regret his love as it is at any moment.

    5. On what you wear
    It does not matter whether you like to wear casual clothes or prefer to wear dresses and heels. You probably still find people who will tell you that you are doing something wrong and will feel apologetic either for "very sexy" or "not dressing like a lady". Well, you should not be sorry, it's your clothes, your body, and your choice.

    6. Choose what to eat
    We often feel that we should go for something very healthy like the salad when we are out to eat because women are "supposed" to always watch what they eat. But listen, if you want a burger or a Kika, do not feel the need to apologize.

    7. Develop your relationship
    Did you feel the need to say "sorry, I have a friend"? Well, you should not regret it. Just as you should not be sorry for being single. We know how awkward it is to get questions like "how lonely you are". Just let people know that it is not their business.

    8. Plan your career
    Just wanting to have a job with children does not mean you should feel the need to apologize. If this is what you want - you should be proud of it. It is your life and live your choices. Contrary to the belief of some people, having children is not necessary for all women.

    9. Being a mother
    On the other hand, if you choose to have children and become a full-time mother - this is something you should not be ashamed of. We all have our goals and all are equally right and important. Nothing to be sorry about.

    10. Be proud of your achievements
    Do not apologize for your success and gain more than someone else, or even about your partner, do not say it's just luck and you're in the right place at the right place. You have succeeded and you are proud of it.

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